صفات مكروهة …

صفات مكروهة …

من أكثر ما يُكره من طباع الناس النفاقُ والجُبن والبخل، المرء يَفقد نصفَ احترامه إذا عُرف بخله وجبنه ، فكيف إذا اجتمعت الخصلتان ؟
بلا شك يسقط من عين الناس بالكلّية، أما مَن عرفناه منافقاً فإن قطع الصلة به وجبت .
إذ لا يمكن مصاحبة أمثاله ، فضلاً عن معاشرته .

ومن الصفات المبغوضة أيضاً التكلف والتَّفَيهق، سواء بالتعالم (ادعاء العلم) أو بالتنطع والتقعّر في أسلوب الكلام . ومنها الثقل أو "الغلاظة" فإنما تُكره هذه الصفات أينما وجدت .

. ولا يُحب معاشرة الثقلاء والمتكلفين والمُتفَيهقين .كان بعض الأدباء إذا شهد مجلساً فيه تكلف وجمود ألقى نكتة حرك بها الجو وكسر الجمود. عليه رحمة الله.

منقول بتصرف

**Inspired by a short conversation:**

Some hearts want to understand everything before they can feel at ease, while life teaches us that many things only become clear after we pass through them.

How many people stand for long before what they cannot change, exhausting themselves trying to understand every detail of their pain—as though anxiety could alter reality, or overthinking could open a door that time has closed.

Yet with time, we learn that peace does not always come from knowing all the answers, but from trusting that God knows what we do not know, sees what we do not see, and guides our lives with a wisdom we might only realize much later.

This does not mean we should stop striving or abandon our sense of responsibility; rather, it means we should not carry on our shoulders what we do not have the power to bear.

Especially in times of hardship, a person needs to remember that God has not abandoned them—and that the path, though it may seem obscure today, may lead tomorrow to a goodness they never expected.

Often, as time passes, we discover that some closed doors were a mercy, some delays were a protection, and some trials were the beginning of a maturity and strength we could not have otherwise attained.

How beautiful it is for a person to hold onto this truth when days grow difficult: to do what they can, then leave what is beyond their power in God’s hands, moving forward with quiet hope and sincere trust.

For God does not forget His servants, nor is He distant from their pain; not a single sincere tear or prayer from a broken heart goes unnoticed by Him.

Relief may be closer to us than we think, but it arrives at the time God knows is best for us, not at the time we choose for ourselves.

So do not lose hope, and do not let the storm convince you that the light has gone out. There is still a merciful hand managing all affairs, opening doors beyond human anticipation.

**Inspired by a short conversation:**

Some hearts want to understand everything before they can feel at ease, while life teaches us that many things only become clear after we pass through them.

How many people stand for long before what they cannot change, exhausting themselves trying to understand every detail of their pain—as though anxiety could alter reality, or overthinking could open a door that time has closed.

Yet with time, we learn that peace does not always come from knowing all the answers, but from trusting that God knows what we do not know, sees what we do not see, and guides our lives with a wisdom we might only realize much later.

This does not mean we should stop striving or abandon our sense of responsibility; rather, it means we should not carry on our shoulders what we do not have the power to bear.

Especially in times of hardship, a person needs to remember that God has not abandoned them—and that the path, though it may seem obscure today, may lead tomorrow to a goodness they never expected.

Often, as time passes, we discover that some closed doors were a mercy, some delays were a protection, and some trials were the beginning of a maturity and strength we could not have otherwise attained.

How beautiful it is for a person to hold onto this truth when days grow difficult: to do what they can, then leave what is beyond their power in God’s hands, moving forward with quiet hope and sincere trust.

For God does not forget His servants, nor is He distant from their pain; not a single sincere tear or prayer from a broken heart goes unnoticed by Him.

Relief may be closer to us than we think, but it arrives at the time God knows is best for us, not at the time we choose for ourselves.

So do not lose hope, and do not let the storm convince you that the light has gone out. There is still a merciful hand managing all affairs, opening doors beyond human anticipation.